so, i figured out a title, i think.  i was out on a walk today, listening to sara groves, who i think is great.  in one of her songs about wanting to spend as much time as possible with a good friend, there is a line that says something to the effect of her friend teaching her to slow down, prop up her feet… the fine art of being who i am.  i love that line.  it’s what i want.  i want to be who i am.  i want it to be an art piece.  a fine art piece.  it is a fine art to be just who you are without all the other things we think we should be.  there’s depth in there somewhere that i don’t have time to unpack.  but for me this blog is about being who i am and being/becoming more okay with that.  put that together with the fact that everytime i blog my instinct is to begin it with “so, i was thinking,” or “so, i was driving home and,” etc.  and we end up with “so… the fine art of being who i am.”  at least for now : )